Insight_ Perspective & Positivity..
“We do not see things as they are; we see things as we are.”
As a child, and even till date; every conversation with my parents is a learning experience.
Mumma and Papa are very cognizant; at the same time so experienced that their little “pep” talks and stories every time we have a video call leaves me thinking; “Why did I not “see” it like this before?”
The “it” here is my trouble or problem statement…and they are my troubleshooters for they refine my way of seeing the obstacle ahead.
And over the years as I have learnt these lessons...one keyword that has stayed with me is “Perspective”!
Whenever we encounter a situation, its basic human nature to think negatively about it…it’s the way human brain functions…we tend to think of the worst and slowly eliminate the possibilities…
Though this approach can be helpful; it is time-consuming, mentally exhausting, and not very rational ….
On the other hand, having a positive perspective on things and being open to the other possibilities while simultaneously trying to understand other’s perspective or situation is what makes the situation more acceptable...
As I pen this down, I do not rationalize the socially unacceptable and morally impermissible ideologies and thoughts, but all I wish to put forward is that the world and our real-life situations are multi-faceted and multi-dimensional…there are various ways to look at a given thing, and its what we choose to see that makes all the difference…
I know that in the current world, that is full of deceit, it is difficult to be positive and look at the brighter side of things….But I also know that “Everything happens for a reason” and it is up to us whether we take the good out of it, learn and grow or we let the negativity hold on to us; only to never leave till we do!
“What consumes your mind, controls your life”…
"I like the mountains because they make me feel small, they help me sort out what's important in life."
Very true....😘 सिक्के के दो पहलू...
ReplyDeletethankyou! Your motivation matters!
DeleteThis is beautifuuuuuul !
ReplyDeleteAnd it gives me the perspective I needed!
Thankyou!!! its what we all need and learn from each other's eyes!
DeleteEveryword stands true..! Thanks for this!
ReplyDeleteThankyou for your encouragement!
DeleteRightly said...it's all about perception. Same situation can be problem for one and an opportunity for other.
ReplyDeleteTrue dat!
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